PRACTICES THAT HARM THE LORD’S CHURCH: The Danger of Spiritual Discouragement Among Brethren by Willie A. Alvarenga

Another harmful practice that we can add to the list, and one that has seriously affected the Lord’s church, is the danger of spiritual discouragement among brethren. What is meant by this expression? By spiritual discouragement, we refer to the lack of encouragement, support, and edification among members of the body of Christ. We are speaking of brethren who do not take the time to strengthen, encourage, and build up their spiritual family in the Lord. At first glance, this attitude may seem insignificant; however, its consequences can be devastating to the spiritual health of a congregation.

The Scriptures have much to say about this matter. For example, the writer of Hebrews exhorted the church, saying, “And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works” (Hebrews 10:24). Notice the text carefully. God not only commands us to love one another, but also to think of practical ways to encourage one another spiritually. The phrase “consider one another” implies paying attention to the needs of our brethren so that we may help them remain faithful to the Lord.

The apostle Paul wrote to the church in Thessalonica: “Therefore comfort each other and edify one another, just as you also are doing. And we urge you, brethren, to recognize those who labor among you, and are over you in the Lord and admonish you, and to esteem them very highly in love for their work’s sake. Be at peace among yourselves. Now we exhort you, brethren, warn those who are unruly, comfort the fainthearted, uphold the weak, be patient with all” (1 Thessalonians 5:11-14). This portion of Scripture reminds us of our responsibility to build one another up. It also teaches us that there are brethren who need encouragement because they are going through times of weakness, sorrow, or discouragement.

Sadly, some Christians have become accustomed to attending worship services without taking the time to encourage anyone. They arrive, worship, and leave without offering a word of comfort, gratitude, or encouragement. Such an attitude is contrary to the spirit of the New Testament. God wants us to be instruments of encouragement for our brethren. Barnabas is an excellent example of this. His name means “Son of Encouragement” or “Son of Consolation” (Acts 4:36). Because of his willingness to encourage others, many were strengthened in the faith and the church was edified.

How much time do you take to express appreciation and encouragement to the elders, deacons, preachers, and teachers of the congregation? They face many struggles, responsibilities, and challenges in their service to the Lord. Elders watch over souls as those who must give an account (Hebrews 13:17). Preachers labor diligently in the teaching of God’s Word (2 Timothy 4:1-5). Teachers devote time and effort to instructing the church. All of them need our prayers, our support, and our words of encouragement.

Many times, our brethren go through afflictions, illnesses, family difficulties, financial problems, and spiritual trials. During such times, words of encouragement can have a tremendous impact. Proverbs 12:25 declares, “Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression, but a good word makes it glad.” Likewise, Proverbs 16:24 teaches, “Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the bones.” We should never underestimate the power of a word of encouragement spoken at the right time.

How can we encourage one another? Consider the following suggestions:

(1) By obeying the command to encourage one another (1 Thessalonians 5:11-14; Hebrews 10:24-25).

(2) By letting our spiritual family know that we are praying for them (Ephesians 6:18; Colossians 4:12).

(3) By avoiding actions, words, or attitudes that discourage our brethren (3 John 9-10; 2 Timothy 4:10, 14, 16).

(4) By loving our brethren as Christ has loved us (John 13:34-35).

(5) By considering others better than ourselves (Philippians 2:1-4).

(6) By letting them know how much we appreciate and value them (Philippians 1:7-8).

(7) By weeping with those who weep and rejoicing with those who rejoice (Romans 12:15; 1 Corinthians 12:26).

(8) By speaking words that edify and impart grace to those who hear (Ephesians 4:29).

(9) By bearing one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2).

(10) By exhorting one another daily so that none may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin (Hebrews 3:13).

(11) By showing hospitality and kindness toward our brethren (1 Peter 4:9; Romans 12:13).

(12) By expressing gratitude for the work and service of others (1 Thessalonians 5:12-13).

Often, we fail to realize the positive influence that words of encouragement can have. The faith of many is strengthened when they understand how much they are loved and appreciated by their brethren in Christ. Sometimes a simple text message, phone call, visit, or handshake accompanied by sincere words can make a tremendous difference in the life of someone who is struggling.

Therefore, God’s people are encouraged to take time to strengthen their spiritual family. Take a few minutes to send an encouraging message to a brother or sister. Let others know that you appreciate their work and faithfulness to the Lord. I assure you that your brethren in Christ will greatly appreciate such a loving gesture.

Let us remember that we are running together in the race that leads to heaven. None of us will arrive there alone. We need the support, prayers, and encouragement of our brethren. Let us fight together and never cease encouraging one another. May every congregation strive to be filled with “Barnabases,” men and women committed to strengthening the faith of those around them.

Personally, I am grateful to all my brothers and sisters in Christ who throughout the years have taken the time to offer me words of encouragement. May God bless them for being true “sons of consolation.” May the Lord help all of us become instruments of encouragement, hope, and edification for His people.

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