Practices that Harm the Lord’s Church: Favoritism Among Brethren by Willie A. Alvarenga

Another dangerous practice that, throughout the centuries, has seriously harmed the Lord’s church is favoritism among brethren. This has been a problem since the first century, even in the days of the early church. James, the Lord’s brother, addressed this issue directly in his letter. In chapter 2, he presents the relationship between faith and works, emphasizing that true faith must be accompanied by obedience. One of those works is avoiding partiality. The text clearly declares that our faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ must be without favoritism (James 2:1).

The expression “respect of persons” denotes partiality or unfair preferential treatment toward certain individuals. It involves valuing some over others based on external factors such as appearance, social status, or personal advantage (cf. James 2:2–4). This attitude is sinful because it contradicts the nature of God, who shows no partiality (Acts 10:34; Romans 2:11). Furthermore, it directly attacks the integrity of the Christian faith, since genuine faith that pleases God cannot exist where favoritism is practiced (James 2:9).

Favoritism is also sinful because it destroys the unity and brotherly love that God desires among His people. Our Lord Jesus Christ commanded: “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another” (John 13:34–35). This love must be sincere, without hypocrisy (Romans 12:9), and extended to all brethren without distinction (1 Peter 1:22). Christ Himself is the perfect example, as He showed compassion and love without discrimination. He reflected the character of the Father, who treats all with justice and fairness (Colossians 3:25).

Those who practice favoritism often fail to realize that their actions are evident. Scripture teaches: “By their fruits you will know them” (Matthew 7:16). Sin, even when one attempts to hide it, will eventually be revealed (Numbers 32:23). Favoritism exposes a lack of spiritual maturity and weak faith—qualities that must be corrected if one desires to inherit eternal life (2 Peter 1:5–11).

Additionally, it is important to remember that in the body of Christ there is no room for divisions or human preferences. Galatians 3:28 teaches that we are all one in Christ Jesus. Likewise, Ephesians 4:1–3 exhorts us to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Favoritism breaks that unity and causes stumbling among brethren (Romans 14:13).

What are some symptoms of favoritism?
(1) Preferring to associate only with a select group,
(2) speaking negatively about those outside that group (James 4:11),
(3) showing concern only for close companions,
(4) doing good only to those who return the favor (Luke 6:32–33),
(5) excluding or ignoring other brethren,
(6) displaying attitudes of contempt or superiority (Philippians 2:3),
(7) living a superficial faith without genuine Christian love.

Brethren, let us ask God to help us never open our hearts to the sin of favoritism. Let us remember that such an attitude is contrary to the gospel and can prevent us from attaining eternal life (Revelation 2:10). Let us practice true love, humility, and justice. Let us learn to love all our brethren in Christ without distinction, for this is what God desires from each one of us (Micah 6:8).

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