PRACTICES THAT HARM THE LORD’S CHURCH: Members Who Give Up Too Quickly by Willie A. Alvarenga

Another harmful practice that we can add to the list, and one that has seriously affected the Lord’s church, is that of members who give up too quickly. This problem has hindered the work of the Lord for many years. Since the establishment of the church in the first century, there have always been individuals who, for various reasons, abandon the cause of Christ. Some stop assembling with the saints and gradually grow spiritually cold (Heb. 10:24-25). Others return to the world, forsake the Lord, and never return to the flock (2 Pet. 2:20-22). There are also those who remain physically present within the congregation while their hearts have already drifted away from God (Rev. 2:4; Isa. 29:13).

There may be many reasons why some members give up so quickly. Some succumb to the trials of life (Jas. 1:2-4, 12), while others allow the cares, riches, and pleasures of this world to choke the Word of God in their hearts (Luke 8:14). Some stumble because of personal conflicts, others because of discouragement, persecution, or a lack of spiritual growth. However, from a Biblical perspective, none of these reasons justifies abandoning the Lord. The cause of Christ is infinitely more important than any temporary difficulty we may encounter. Jesus Himself asked, “For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul?” (Mark 8:36).

The church of the first century experienced countless hardships. Many Christians were persecuted, imprisoned, deprived of their possessions, and, in some cases, gave their very lives for the sake of the gospel (Heb. 10:32-34; 11:35-38). Nevertheless, many of them remained faithful in the Lord’s way. Their love for God was so profound that they were willing to suffer for Christ. They recognized that it was a privilege to suffer for His name (Acts 5:41-42; Phil. 1:29). The apostle Paul and Silas, even while unjustly imprisoned, prayed and sang hymns to God (Acts 16:25). Paul even declared that he rejoiced in his sufferings for Christ (Col. 1:24) and confidently proclaimed, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith” (2 Tim. 4:7-8).

When we compare the sufferings of the first-century church with the trials many Christians face today, it becomes evident that those brethren endured far greater hardships. Yet today, some abandon the cause of Christ over relatively minor matters: personal disagreements, criticism, a lack of recognition, financial difficulties, or simply the distractions of the world. Such reasons should never be sufficient to forsake the hope of eternal life.

It is imperative that every Christian cultivate an unwavering faithfulness to God so that nothing in this world will lead him away from the Lord’s path. Our heavenly Father deserves our complete faithfulness and commitment (Rev. 2:10). Our love for Him should motivate us to remain steadfast even in the midst of trials. The Hebrew writer exhorted, “Therefore do not cast away your confidence, which has great reward. For you have need of endurance” (Heb. 10:35-36). Likewise, Paul wrote, “Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord” (1 Cor. 15:58).

The Lord’s work is seriously affected when Christians give up too quickly. The consequences are numerous and have a significant impact on the local congregation. Among them are the following:

  1. The membership of the congregation decreases.
  2. There are fewer workers available to fulfill the responsibilities of worship and service.
  3. The example of faithfulness that other members need to see is lost (1 Tim. 4:12).
  4. There are fewer brethren to encourage one another to love and good works (Heb. 10:24).
  5. The evangelistic effectiveness of the congregation is diminished (Matt. 28:19-20).
  6. Some members become discouraged when they see others abandon the faith.
  7. Families suffer greatly when a father or mother ceases to be a spiritual example in the home (Eph. 6:4; Deut. 6:6-9).
  8. The name of God is dishonored before unbelievers (Rom. 2:24).
  9. The church loses spiritual influence within the community.
  10. The Christian who falls away places the salvation of his soul in jeopardy (Heb. 3:12-14; Rev. 3:11).

These are only some of the tragic consequences of departing from the Lord’s way. It is especially heartbreaking when those who fall away are parents, for they cease to be examples of faithfulness and perseverance for their children and their spouses. Future generations are often deeply affected by the lack of spiritual commitment of those who were entrusted with leading them in the way of the Lord.

We must never forget that the New Testament is filled with exhortations to persevere. Jesus said, “But he who endures to the end shall be saved” (Matt. 24:13). He also declared, “Be faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life” (Rev. 2:10). The writer of Hebrews encourages us to run with endurance the race that is set before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith (Heb. 12:1-3). Our strength does not come from ourselves but from the Lord, who promises to help those who remain close to Him (Phil. 4:13; Isa. 41:10).

The worst thing a discouraged Christian can do is to distance himself from the very source of encouragement, strength, and hope. When we need help the most is precisely when we should draw nearer to God, to His Word, and to the fellowship of the saints. The Lord never forsakes those who remain faithful (Heb. 13:5-6).

Therefore, we encourage all brothers and sisters who, for whatever reason, have wandered away from the Lord’s path to return to Christ’s flock. The Good Shepherd continues to call His sheep (John 10:11-16), and our heavenly Father continues to wait with mercy for the son who decides to return (Luke 15:11-24). There is still time to repent and restore fellowship with God (Acts 8:22; 1 John 1:9).

Let us never forget that the eternal reward belongs only to those who remain faithful until the end. May each of us resolve never to give up, always remembering the words of the apostle Paul: “And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart” (Gal. 6:9).

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